Copyright torontosun

I have dietary issues and have only recently figured out which foods don’t make me uncomfortable. I can no longer tolerate dairy, fatty foods, etc. The menu items at most restaurants contain those things. When I politely refuse certain appetizers or sides with my entrees, she becomes upset. I understand, as she does pay for everything. How can I get around not compromising my health with her generosity? — PERPLEXED IN COLORADO