Copyright berkshireeagle
DEAR ABBY: While the saying goes "no man is an island," I beg to differ, as I am married to one. My husband has little to no patience with anyone, family included. He has always been negative, and as he grows older, it has grown 10 times worse. Over the past 15 years, my husband has alienated most of his (our) friends to the point where he no longer has any contact with them. He literally walks away from them in public. While I know a lot of people are super narcissistic today, I feel you have to put up with some of today's BS. I'm not super social myself, but his rudeness has gotten out of hand. Our social life is nil. It may be a case of depression (he's on a multitude of medications). It's wearing me down, and I'm afraid I'm sinking down with him. Is there a solution? -- GOING DOWN, TOO DEAR GOING: Because your husband has mental health issues, this should be discussed with a doctor. A different medication and talk therapy might help him if he would consent to it. Please consider consulting someone for yourself to help you decide if you want to spend the rest of your life being this isolated. Nothing will change if you don't become proactive.
