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The wife of a man who was discovered with 'missing' Georgia dentist plans to divorce him after finding an explosive email trove that blew open his 13-year affair, Daily Mail can reveal. Anthony Nestor, 56, was reported missing after he vanished from his home in Kennesaw, Georgia, on October 11 without a word to his wife of almost 20 years. Her worst fears were realized when Nestor was spotted over a week later at a local mall with his dentist, Dr. Melanie Nadler Litt, 52. Nadler Litt's husband Lesley Litt had also reported her missing after she failed to show up for work on October 14, just days before a planned trip to Japan. In a bizarre twist, the dentist-patient disappearing act was only foiled after former patient, Billy Robinson, spotted Nadler Litt with Nestor at a local mall and called 911 in response to an alert that cops had issued. The strange saga gripped the internet and saw groups spring up on social media as internet sleuths dissected every twist and turn in the case. Nestor's wife, who asked not to be named due to online harassment she has suffered, told Daily Mail how she discovered a bombshell email trail that revealed her husband's affair with Nadler Litt. She also said she wants a divorce so she can move on from the 'public spectacle' his devastating betrayal has become. Nestor left their Kennesaw apartment on October 11, to hang out with the 'guys' and promised he would be home later that evening. But when he hadn't returned the following morning, his wife frantically called, texted and emailed him, and with no response, later reported him missing to police. In her anxious search for her husband, the woman logged into his computer and found an unfamiliar email account in the browsing history. On opening the webpage, she says she found shocking emails that revealed Nestor, an IT network engineer, had been having a 13-year affair with married mother-of-one. The woman, who has no children with Nestor, told Daily Mail: 'It was a Yahoo email account I was not aware of, and it was used solely for them two to communicate.' She says the emails revealed the pair had planned to meet up on Saturday, the very day Nestor said he was hanging out with the 'guys'. She said in another email, Nadler Litt told Nestor to let her know 'if you need me to move any cameras' in an apparent bid to ensure her husband did not see Nestor at their Marietta home. In a third email, she said Nadler Litt wrote to Nestor that she had been with him for half her 26-year marriage to Litt. Daily Mail has seen a selection of the emails but has not been able to verify the anonymous email addresses belong to Nestor and Nadler Litt. However, there are clear clues in the emails that give away their identity, such as references to Nadler Litt's dental profession, and their spouses' and friends' initials. The woman did not want the full, humiliating extent of the emails to be published. After reading the 'loving' emails, Nestor's wife believes the pair had been planning on leaving their spouses for some time. But something changed and they abruptly vanished from their homes without a word to their spouses. Nestor left 'everything' behind, including his IDs and his clothes, his wife said. After the shocking email discovery, Nestor's wife said she told him 'I know you are with her. I found things out,' before adding: 'I don't really know that you should come home anytime soon.' Nestor's wife also texted Nadler Litt 'some not very nice things', the gist of which was: 'where's my husband and y'all are in trouble', she said. Asked how she felt about learning of her husband's infidelity, she said: 'I was angry and betrayed. I felt like I've been gaslit every time I brought up, "I feel your relationship's inappropriate, and this needs to stop". Nestor and his wife had been patients at the Robert Gittelman dental practice in Marietta where Nadler Litt worked since about 2012, she said. Nestor usually had his teeth examined by Nadler Litt, while she was seen by the male dentist, his wife said. She added: 'Of course now it makes me wonder, knowing how long and how deep this relationship went, if there was a particular reason why she was always his dentist.' Nestor's wife said she had long felt something was off about his relationship with Nadler Litt after he previously admitted 'they were communicating outside of dentist patient relationship'. She claimed Nestor said Nadler Litt would tell him things about her college student son Stephen or about a 'complaint she had in her marriage'. The woman said she told her husband it was 'not your business' and that his contact with Nadler Litt was 'inappropriate'. He repeatedly insisted they were 'just friends', but the emails suggest a very different story. After reading the emails, Nestor's wife traced the last location of his phone to Nadler Litt's marital home before finding the couple's car in their neighborhood. The woman said after reading the emails, she contacted Nadler Litt's husband, Lesley. She claims he did not believe her initially and insisted 'something bad' must have happened to his wife. But after sending him and police the emails, she says Litt told her 'Maybe you're right'. Nadler Litt and Nestor's disappearing act was rumbled on October 19, when Robinson, spotted them at the local mall and called police. Cops arrived at the scene and spoke with Nadler Litt and Nestor, footage of which Robinson shared on his social media. Nestor's wife said a detective called her that day to tell her police had found her husband, but that all he could tell her was 'they were found together, he is safe, he left voluntarily, and he will contact me if he wants to'. After the footage spread on social media, the woman said she received harassing messages before her home address was shared online as internet sleuths hunted for her husband. Nestor's wife said she was totally blindsided by his affair, which came months before they planned to celebrate their 20th wedding anniversary. 'And then to have it become such a public spectacle, where all of Atlanta and whoever else [knows],' she said. 'It all puts the last 13 years of our life into question. I don't know what's real, what's not real, true or not true, anymore,' she added. Nestor's wife has not heard from him since he left home on October 11. She wishes he had just told her their marriage was over rather than pulling his elaborate disappearing act. 'I'd have been hurt, and I'd have been like, "Can we try counseling? Can we try working this out?" 'But then the second I would have found out that this has been a 13-year-long affair, I'd have been like, "There's nothing we can do, because I will never trust you again".' She remains mystified as to why her husband and Nadler Litt did what they did, adding: 'I honestly think he is not coming back, and they're going to do whatever it is they're going to do. 'I hope they are happy together. 'I just wish that my husband would just tell me, it's over. After 20 years, I feel like at the very least I deserve the words, "our marriage is over". 'I would love an explanation as to why it went this direction. But I would settle for, "It's over, she makes me happy", so I can move forward.' Nestor's wife ruled out any notion of reconciliation and said she has retained an attorney and begun the process for filing from divorce, she said. Nadler Litt sparked panic among family and friends when she failed to show up for work on October 14. She had worked at the Robert Gittelman practice on Villa Rica Way in Marietta the day before. Her sudden disappearance was described as 'completely out of character' by worried friends. She was reported missing, and during a welfare check, Nadler Litt's phone was found inside her house, but her car and wallet were missing. Her car was later found abandoned in a parking lot. The Daily Mail previously published exclusive photos showing Nadler Litt and Nestor walking around a local mall over the weekend. And we revealed how a cheap Comfort Inn hotel in Kennesaw close to the mall has become the pair's temporary love nest. Asked about their relationship and when they planned on talking to their spouses, Nadler Litt remained silent and turned away, while Nestor said, 'no comment'. When pressed by Daily Mail if Nadler Litt was safe, he threatened to call the police if the reporter did not leave the public area close to the hotel. Lesley Litt said he had been told by police not to speak to the press but revealed he and son Stephen were 'worried' about Nadler Litt. He added he would 'love to see my wife home safe' so they can 'work out' what they are doing.
