By Geoff Wilford

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Downsizing has an image problem. Say the word at a dinner party and people instantly picture boxy flats, sad storage units, and a life of compromise.

In reality, it can be the opposite: liberating, practical, and genuinely enjoyable.

I should know, because I have done it. In our late 40s and early 50s, my wife Suzannah and I moved sooner than most.

We were hardly the poster couple for downsizing. We were not struggling with stairs, or gasping at eye-watering heating bills. We simply realised half our house was sitting there doing nothing.

The formal dining room came out once a year at Christmas, the spare bedrooms sat empty most of the time, and the study had become a glorified laundry room.

It was like paying for an expensive gym membership you only go to once.

So, we sold up and moved while it was still our choice, not a necessity. And do you know what? We have not missed the extra space for a single day.

In fact, it feels like someone lifted a weight off our shoulders. Making the move earlier gave us exactly what we wanted: less house, more life.

The number one mistake is waiting until you are forced to act. That is when downsizing becomes a crisis.

The garden is out of control, the stairs feel like Everest, or the roof springs yet another leak. By then, you are scrambling.

Do it sooner and it feels completely different. You are in control. You get to pick a place you actually want, not just what is left.

Let’s be honest, family houses in Battersea, Clapham and Wandsworth are still in such hot demand that most sellers are pleasantly shocked at how much equity they can release.

Combine that with the growing choice of smart, smaller homes with lifts, storage, terraces and concierge services, and suddenly the whole idea starts looking a lot less gloomy.

Everyone obsesses over square footage. “We cannot possibly manage with less than 2,000 square feet,” people say.

But here is the truth: layout beats size every time. A well-designed two-bed with light and flow feels bigger than a three-bed rabbit warren with endless corridors.

When you view a property, walk through as if you already live there. Where would you put the coffee machine? Where do you flop with a book? Can you cook, chat and entertain without bumping into walls? If it feels natural, you are on to something.

And as for extra bedrooms? Be honest. How often are your grown-up children who have fled the nest (but still raid the fridge at weekends) all likely to turn up at once?

A sofa bed works miracles. Better one useful spare room than three shrines to “just in case.”

Acting early is also about future-proofing. Right now, stairs may be fine. In five years, maybe not.

A lift, single-level layout and a balcony instead of a sprawling garden are not concessions, they are smart ways of guaranteeing independence.

And once you strip away the hassle? Magic happens. Less maintenance. Smaller bills. No guilt about rooms you never set foot in.

Suddenly weekends are for brunch on Northcote Road, evening walks by the river in Battersea, or simply sitting on your balcony with a glass of wine instead of wrangling the lawn mower.

Of course, moving out of the family home tugs at the heartstrings. These houses are full of memories: birthdays, barbecues, and DIY disasters that became family legends.

But here’s the thing, these memories are carried with you. They are not left behind in the property, as many may fear.

I prefer to call it “right-sizing.” You are picking a home that fits the way you live now, not the way you lived twenty years ago.

Once you have made the leap, you will be amazed how quickly you stop missing the rooms you thought you could not live without.

Suz and I laugh about it all the time. We used to think those spaces were essential. We have not wished for them back once.

So here is the advice: do not wait until you are forced to move. Think of it as a lifestyle choice, not a last resort.

Focus on layout, ease and location. Be honest about what you will actually use, and let go of the guilt about what you will not.

Get it right, and moving to a smaller home feels less like downsizing and more like unlocking freedom, simplicity, and a home that truly works for you.

Geoff Wilford is founder of Wilfords London