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Family spa day When I took my three-year-old to Finest Playa Mujeres in Mexico, I thought her favorite part of vacation would be splashing in the pool or building sandcastles. Instead, what delighted her most was her very first manicure. Sitting in an oversized spa chair, she giggled as the nail technician carefully painted her tiny fingernails pink. For her, it was a moment of magic. For me, it was a reminder that family travel is evolving—and increasingly, resorts are extending luxury experiences like spa treatments to their youngest guests. Across destinations from the Caribbean to California, children’s spa menus now feature pint-sized facials, gentle massages and mani-pedis designed for little hands and feet. The growing trend caters to parents who want to share a taste of relaxation and indulgence with their kids. But while these offerings can be fun and memorable, they also raise important questions about safety, development and values. The Rise Of Kid-Friendly Spa Menus Resorts have long tailored amenities to families, like kids’ clubs, children’s pools and portable cribs. What’s newer is the expansion of spa programming. At luxury resorts, children’s treatments are becoming a staple. Wellness destinations are adding “junior spa” menus with scaled-down services like mini-facials using gentle products, or short massages designed to calm rather than correct. Parents are increasingly viewing wellness as a family activity. Industry research supports the trend: according to the Global Wellness Institute, family-oriented wellness travel has grown steadily over the past five years, with resorts investing in programming that integrates children. What Parents Should Weigh While the idea of sharing a spa experience with your child can be appealing, experts urge parents to approach these offerings thoughtfully. For one, children’s skin is thinner and more sensitive than adults’, making it more prone to irritation. Many spa products contain fragrances or active ingredients that aren’t appropriate for young skin, so parents should ensure treatments use hypoallergenic, fragrance-free products designed specifically for children. That means asking questions before booking: What products will be used? Are they free of parabens and harsh chemicals? Are estheticians trained to work with kids? MORE FOR YOU Massages, for another example, may be soothing for older children or teens but unnecessary—or even uncomfortable—for toddlers. Young kids may not have the attention span or physical readiness for certain treatments. Beyond physical concerns, parents may also want to reflect on the values communicated by spa services. For some families, introducing spa treatments early can normalize self-care as part of wellness. For others, it may risk encouraging a focus on appearance or luxury at too young an age. Alternatives To Consider For families hesitant about spa treatments, or looking for budget options, there are other ways to introduce wellness rituals. At-home “spa days” with DIY facemasks or bath bomb soaks can create a sense of pampering without the cost or potential risks. Resorts, too, often offer wellness-themed activities that don’t involve professional treatments, like family yoga classes, aromatherapy crafts, or guided relaxation sessions for kids. These alternatives can be less about luxury and more about building healthy habits—teaching children to recognize when they need rest, calm, or self-care. How To Make Spa Treatments A Positive Experience For parents who do decide to book a spa service for their child, a few steps can make the experience more positive: Preview the menu together. Letting a child choose between options can empower them and make the experience feel special. Ask about customizations. Many spas can shorten sessions, use kid-specific products, or adjust services to be gentler. Stay present. Joining the treatment or staying nearby can reassure young children and reinforce that the spa is a safe, fun space. The Bottom Line As more resorts add spa treatments for children, families have new opportunities to experience relaxation together. But, thoughtful decision-making is key. Parents should prioritize safety, consider developmental readiness and think carefully about the message the experience sends. For some, a first manicure on vacation may be a joyful memory. For others, wellness can be nurtured through simpler, everyday rituals. Either way, the rise of kid-friendly spa menus reflects a broader trend: wellness travel isn’t just for adults anymore. Resorts are redefining family vacations to include not just play and exploration, but moments of calm and care—even for the youngest guests. Editorial StandardsReprints & Permissions