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They're smart. They're rich. They're changing the world. But when it comes to women, Silicon Valley's top tech bosses are sitting ducks. That's the warning from Aliia Roza, a glamorous 41-year-old Russian-born former spy who once used seduction to infiltrate drug cartels for her government. In an exclusive interview, Roza lifted the lid on a growing wave of so-called 'sexpionage' — where seductive agents, often working for Moscow or Beijing, use romance and flattery to steal corporate secrets from America's tech elite. 'What used to be done in the Cold War with hidden cameras and hotel rooms is now done online — on LinkedIn, Instagram, FaceTime, even through virtual sex,' she told the Daily Mail. Roza says spies no longer need lipstick and a martini glass. Agents create fake profiles — usually stunning women with tech credentials — then shower lonely executives with attention. 'A beautiful fake profile tells them, 'You're brilliant, you're handsome, I admire you.' That's how it starts — love bombing, ego stroking — and before they know it, they've shared company secrets,' she explains. The trap follows a familiar pattern: build trust, create dependency, then exploit emotion. Sometimes, Roza says, AI tools like ChatGPT are used to craft perfectly tailored messages. What begin as online affairs can lead to years-long relationships in which the mark never realizes he's married to a spy, spilling out company secrets in pillow talk. 'It's not about sex — it's about control. Once the target feels they can't lose you, you can get anything from them,' she said. Even Elon Musk has joked about the danger. 'If she's a ten, you're an asset,' he posted on X, warning tech peers about foreign beauties suddenly showing interest in their lives. And it's not paranoia. US counter-intelligence officials say China's Communist Party has conducted more than 60 espionage operations in the US over the past four years — with Silicon Valley a prime target as competition over AI and microchips heats up. The theft of trade secrets is estimated to cost the US economy a staggering $600 billion a year. Roza would know. She was recruited at just 18 into a post-Soviet intelligence service, trained to manipulate powerful men through charm and psychology. Her early assignments focused on drug traffickers, not politicians or executives — but she learned how to turn emotional connection into information. 'I learned how to use seduction and psychology to get inside their world,' she said. Eventually she escaped the service, fearing she would be sent abroad to infiltrate Western power circles. Publicly telling her story, she says, became her insurance policy. 'You can't just leave Russian intelligence. I knew that going public was the only way to protect myself.' Today, she warns, Russia and China are refining the same psychological playbook she once used. Where Cold War spies used hotel trysts, today's operators exploit digital loneliness. 'Men in Silicon Valley are geniuses in technology — but emotionally, many are lonely and naïve,' she said. 'They live in a digital world and don't realize when they're being manipulated.' Executives have reported growing numbers of 'suspiciously attractive' women connecting online. Some try to sneak into tech conferences, posing as translators or researchers, eager to meet 'the right man.' Even seasoned intelligence experts admit they've been targeted. James Mulvenon, chief intelligence officer at Pamir Consulting, says his inbox was flooded with 'sophisticated LinkedIn requests from the same type of attractive young Chinese woman.' 'It's a real vulnerability for us,' he told The Times. 'By law and by culture, we don't do that kind of thing. They have an asymmetric advantage when it comes to sex warfare.' The phrase 'asymmetric advantage' crops up often in security circles — meaning the US plays fair while adversaries do not. Western agencies have long used human-intelligence operations, but they avoid sexual entrapment for ethical and legal reasons, leaving the field wide open to rivals who have no such scruples. The most notorious case remains Christine Fang, also known as Fang Fang, a Chinese operative who between 2011 and 2015 wooed California politicians — including Congressman Eric Swalwell — in a four-year mission that stunned US intelligence. She helped fundraise for his campaign, placed an intern in his office, and socialized with other rising stars before abruptly fleeing to China when federal agents came knocking. Before her, Russian beauty Anna Chapman was among a group of deep-cover agents across the US, using her good looks and tech skills to collect secrets for Moscow, until she was busted in 2010. While most cases involve male targets, female executives are not immune — and sometimes male operatives or AI-generated personas target them too. Now, officials warn, Beijing has shifted its focus from politics to tech — targeting engineers, startup founders, and venture-capital insiders. 'Sex warfare' isn't the only front. China has also used startup competitions and investor roadshows to pilfer intellectual property. Founders are asked to upload detailed business plans — sometimes including code or personal data — in exchange for a chance at Chinese funding. Winners are often pressured to move operations, and their IP, to China. The House Committee on Homeland Security warned earlier this year that the 60 espionage cases uncovered in recent years were likely just the tip of the iceberg. China denies engaging in sexual entrapment operations and insists its nationals abroad act independently. Roza insists the heart of the problem isn't technology or geopolitics — it's psychology. 'Most of these men don't lack intelligence,' she said. 'They lack self-esteem. They crave validation. That's what makes them vulnerable.' Her advice is simple: build emotional awareness and confidence. 'The real weapon isn't beauty — it's self-belief. If you know your worth, you can't be manipulated.' She now runs coaching and motivational programs teaching executives how to spot manipulation — and how to keep their personal boundaries intact. Modern seductresses, Roza warns, may not even be human, but an AI-generated personality trained to mirror a target's emotions. That makes the threat nearly impossible to detect. Victims can spend months, even years, believing they're in a genuine relationship with someone who doesn't exist. Roza's story — from teenage recruit to Silicon Valley whistle-blower — reads like a spy thriller. But her message is deadly serious. With trillion-dollar technologies at stake, the war for information has moved into the boardroom, the bedroom, and the chat window. 'Every CEO, every senior engineer, is a target,' she warns. 'The higher your position, the bigger the bullseye on your back.' She pauses, flashing the knowing smile of someone who's been on both sides of the game. 'The real weapon isn't beauty — it's self-confidence. If you know your worth, you can't be manipulated,' she said.
