On Cue with Kafui Dey: Boardroom to ballroom: what hosting corporate events teaches about leadership
By Francis
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If you think leadership lessons only come from Harvard case studies, management retreats in Mauritius, or those thick books with graphs nobody reads, you haven’t hosted a corporate event in Africa.
Trust me, nothing will test—and sharpen—your leadership skills faster than standing in front of a room full of executives, clients, and colleagues, trying to keep a program on time while the keynote speaker is still stuck in traffic on the Lagos Third Mainland Bridge.
Corporate events are more than cocktail parties with name tags. They’re microcosms of leadership. Whether you’re in the boardroom making decisions or in the ballroom keeping guests entertained, the same principles apply. Let’s break it down.
1. The art of preparation (a.k.a. don’t trust PowerPoint alone)
In leadership, as in event hosting, preparation is everything. A good MC knows that the sound system will fail just when the CEO is about to make their big announcement. A great MC has a backup microphone, a joke ready, and maybe even a choir to fill the gap.
Likewise, in leadership, spreadsheets and slide decks are nice, but true preparation means anticipating what could go wrong—and being ready to improvise. Think of it this way: if you can keep a ballroom calm during a power cut in Johannesburg, you can definitely lead a boardroom through a financial storm.
2. Reading the room
A ballroom teaches you that attention spans are shorter than a WhatsApp status. Guests will tune out the minute the program drags. An effective host quickly senses the mood: is the audience hungry, bored, or secretly checking football scores under the table?
Leaders face the same challenge. In a boardroom, your team won’t say outright that they’re disengaged—but you’ll see it in the yawns, the slouched postures, and the suspiciously frequent “bathroom breaks.” Reading the room is about emotional intelligence, empathy, and knowing when to switch gears. Sometimes it means cutting a 20-slide presentation down to 5. Sometimes it means cracking a well-timed joke about jollof rice wars.
3. Communication is leadership in action
An MC’s job is to make complex programs look seamless. One minute you’re introducing a keynote speaker, the next you’re announcing lunch, and the next you’re calming guests because the coffee hasn’t arrived. All while sounding smooth and confident.
That’s leadership communication in a nutshell. Clarity, brevity, and charisma are not optional—they’re currency. A good leader, like a good host, speaks so people listen. They simplify strategy, inspire action, and sometimes, distract the crowd from the fact that the air conditioning has mysteriously stopped working.
4. Managing egos (without starting World War III)
Here’s the thing about corporate events: everyone thinks they’re the most important person in the room. The keynote wants more time, the sponsor insists their logo isn’t big enough, and the guest of honour is already 45 minutes late.
Sound familiar? That’s leadership. The boardroom is filled with egos, competing priorities, and personalities that require delicate balancing. A skilled host learns to manage egos with tact—giving everyone their moment without letting the program collapse. A skilled leader does the same with team members, clients, and shareholders. Sometimes, diplomacy is the real performance.
5. Grace under pressure
Hosting a corporate gala in Nairobi, Cape Town, or Accra guarantees one thing: something will go wrong. The lights may flicker, the Wi-Fi may die, or the guest list may mysteriously double. Your job is to stay calm, smile, and keep the audience believing everything is under control.
Leaders face this daily. Projects fail, markets shift, crises hit. Your calmness is contagious. Just as a confident MC can keep 500 restless guests from bolting for the buffet, a steady leader can guide their team through chaos without panic.
The ballroom as leadership school
At first glance, hosting corporate events looks like entertainment. But scratch the surface and it’s pure leadership training: preparation, emotional intelligence, communication, ego management, and grace under pressure.
So, the next time you’re invited to host—or even just observe—a corporate event, pay close attention. The ballroom, like the boardroom, is where leadership is tested. And if you can survive a two-hour delay because the dignitary is “almost there,” you can probably survive anything the corporate world throws at you.
Because at the end of the day, leadership—like event hosting—is not about being the loudest voice in the room. It’s about making sure everyone feels seen, heard, and taken care of… preferably before the samosas run out.
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