By Paige Freshwater

Copyright walesonline

Every parent is familiar with the frustration of asking their child about their school day, only to receive a nonchalant ‘it was alright’ in response. To bridge this communication gap and foster bonding, a nursery has devised a scheme to give fathers a closer look at their children’s school life. The initiative invites fathers to volunteer for a day in their child’s classroom, promoting post-visit discussions about the day. An anonymous father shared his experience on Reddit: “My daughter’s school participates in a programme called WATCH D.O.G.S, which encourages dads to volunteer one day a year in their kid’s school. Part of it is to bond with your kid and see what their day is like, the other part is to be a positive male role model for other students who don’t have a lot of that in their lives, especially in primary schools where 99 per cent of the staff are typically female.” He then shared his key “thoughts and observations” from the day he volunteered. He expressed surprise at the children starting their day with a fire drill. The American father added: “The day started with a fire drill. Followed by a ‘lockdown drill,’ which we didn’t have when I was in school. “All four classes piled into a single classroom and had to be absolutely quiet and still while the lights were off and the doors were locked. Scary to think about, but necessary in today’s world.” Following this, he says the ‘star of the week’ child presented a ‘show and tell’ to the entire class, showing off a LeapFrog device. He added: “Kids started peppering him with questions, ‘Can you play Angry Birds or Crossy Road?’ ‘No.’ ‘Can you FaceTime?’ ‘No.'”. “I felt bad for him. He was excited to show off his favourite toy and immediately got railroaded by the iPad posse.” After moaning about an early lunch at 10.45am, he made some observations about how the different genders behave during class. He said: “I’m so glad I have girls. Boys would randomly do karate chops, push each other and try to stir up trouble. “About half of them were wearing Star Wars shirts. I asked a couple what their favourite Star Wars movie is and they all answered that they’re ‘not allowed to see the movies but watch the cartoons.’ Interesting.” Not only this but he says the girls worked better as a team while the boys spent most of their time arguing with each other rather than working on their tasks. He added: “It was fascinating to see the gender differences in action. The teacher divided them up to turn geometric shapes into animals. “The girls worked together, sharing ideas and encouragement. The boys turned into cavemen, arguing and fighting, grunting and growling.” He paused to acknowledge the teachers who sacrifice their peaceful moments to supervise children during break time, describing it as eyeopening. He said: “One of the boys ripped my sunglasses off and refused to give them back. 33-years-old and I’m still getting bullied. “I was going to tell him the truth about Santa, Tooth Fairy and Darth Vader if he didn’t give them back. ‪”. “Post-recess, an urgent meeting was called for the entire grade. Apparently several of our ‘kindergarten friends’ were picking up trash on the playground and putting it in their mouths. “This was a deadly serious meeting, in which I had to bite my lip. Leave it to a teacher to turn a negative into a positive – she’s bringing work gloves and trash bags. ‘If you want to pick up trash, you can help clean up your playground instead of making your mouth dirty.'”. “Hide and seek and tag have been banned until further notice because ‘several of our friends have been pushed and gotten hurt’.” Discussing parents rather than pupils, he was taken aback to discover how he outshone other fathers who had participated in the programme with his physical education abilities. He said: “I participated in most of PE. Jumping jacks, squats, etc. Gym teacher said I was one of the few dads who has been able to touch their toes. “I did, however, have to sit out yoga. Hard to do downward dog and candle pose in jeans.” Once more expressing his admiration for teachers, he lauded their acting abilities, stating: “They run their classrooms like drill sergeants.” He continued: “I don’t want to say mean, but definitely very strict and they have to be to keep control. “But then they would turn to me to chat and would be super sweet. It was a switch they could flip on and off. “Never crossed my mind that teachers are playing characters. After spending a day in their shoes, I have the utmost respect for who anyone who dedicates their lives to moulding young minds, especially kindergarteners!”.