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Comedian Teju Babyface has sparked controversy on social media with his advice on infidelity in relationshipsIn a video making waves on social media, Teju Babyface explained why partners should not confess to cheating to one anotherTeju Babyface’s opinion has led to a debate on the Nigerian social media space, with some netizens blasting the comedianCHECK OUT: Discover How to Work with Brands, Earn from Affiliate Links, and Tap into Ad Revenue — Because Your Content Deserves to Pay OffNigerian stand-up comedian and TV host Teju Babyface, whose real name is Gbadewonuola Olateju Oyelakin, has sparked controversy with his message to couples on infidelity in relationships.According to Teju Babyface, if a partner cheats on their better half, it is best not to confess.Comedian Teju Babyface warns couple on confessing to cheating.
Credit: tejubabyfaceoyelakinSource: Instagram“If you cheat on your wife or husband, but especially your wife, especially men, if you cheat on your wife, don’t tell her. Don’t confess. You cheat on your spouse, don’t tell them. Don’t ever do it,” Teju Babyface said in a video shared via his Instagram page.Read alsoAsake speaks on industry double standards, video trends: “Being humble doesn’t work””If any man beats you, leave”: Female pastor says, video of sermon goes viral online“He wants me to pay his taxes”: Cardi B opens up as divorce battle with ex-hubby Offset goes messyThe comedian argued that confessing to cheating by any of the partners can be catastrophic and damaging to a relationship.ATTENTION: Protect Yourself From Fake News — Learn How In Our Free Short Course. Get a Certificate!According to Teju, people who open up about cheating in relationships often do so to alleviate guilt rather than to be honest with their partner.“The reason you want to confess is not because you are honest; the reason is that the weight of guilt and a guilty conscience is killing you, and you are looking to share it with somebody,” he said.”Confessing doesn’t heal, it only transfers your guilt and shatters their world. You’ve already broken their heart by cheating. Don’t break it twice,” he advised.Teju Babyface’s viral advice on infidelity sparks controversy.
Credit: tejubabyfaceoyelakinSource: InstagramTeju stressed that rather than open up to their partners, people who have been caught up in cheating should either speak with God or meet with a professional counsellor.”Everyone tells you to ‘come clean’ if you cheat. Even the Bible is often misquoted to back that up. But let me be clear: confession is to God, not to your spouse. When you confess to them, it’s not honesty. It’s manipulation. You’re just transferring your guilt and sabotaging your relationship. There is no benefit to them. All the benefit is yours,” he added.Read alsoSpyro shares how his fiancée assists him in financial management: “Doesn’t like Business class”Peter Okoye locks horns with man who told him to kill pride and reconcile with his twin brotherBBN Queen Mercy schools Pastor Kingsley over his claim dat men aren’t obligated to provide for womenThe video of Teju Babyface’s advice to couples on infidelity is below:Reactions trail Teju Babyface’s advice to couplesThe advice has sparked debate, with many sharing diverse opinions. Below are some of the reactions to the advice dropped by the stand-up comedian:queen_phoebian commented:”Teju baby face I really respect you and hold you in high esteem but this one wey you walk no make sense..Are you alright?”yourfavefirstlady said:”The problem is sin thrives in secrecy, if you do not confess, you’ll get comfortable in it.”japhethwaziri_ commented:”Why not say, Do not cheat at all.”e4emelda said:”Can we start by not cheating at all it’s sounds better.”vicocool_arts reacted:”This is the reason why the Bible should be your major source of influence, inspiration and lifestyle. Because all you would hear outside would derail you and sometimes make you question your sanity.”the_ngozi wrote:Read alsoDJ Cuppy uses sister Temi’s wedding to state the importance of marriage: “Most powerful partnership””It’s my mission to avoid wrong man getting me pregnant”: Vee opens up on love life struggleSinger Paul Okoye encourages women to assist their men in relationships, people react”Anything I can’t tell my partner, I’d rather not do. I never intentionally put my self in situations that the cons outweigh the pros by a lot.”Teju Babyface speaks on relationship with Mercy AigbeLegit.ng previously reported that Teju Babyface shared a story about his love life from when he was an undergraduate at the University of Lagos. The comedian disclosed that he used to have a massive crush on actress Mercy Aigbe during their time as undergraduates.Teju noted that he was ahead of Mercy Aigbe by two years, and she used to like him very much, but things didn’t work out between them. PAY ATTENTION: Follow our WhatsApp channel to never miss out on the news that matters to you! Source: Legit.ng