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"You are young. You may feel pressure from society, family, or your relationships to settle, but don't do it." Being in your 20s can be a whirlwind of a time. I'm 27, and it's wild to see everyone around my age in different stages of life (getting married, having kids, traveling the world, etc.). It sometimes feels like I'm behind, but I think being in your 20s is all about transitions and transformations. That said, it certainly doesn't hurt to get some words of wisdom to help navigate such a pivotal time. So when people over 30 started sharing life advice to Gen Z'ers and younger, I was all ears. Here are some of the most eye-opening responses that people of any age could learn from: 1. "Learn how to cook. No one's asking you to be a top chef, but cooking is a great life skill to have, and it's way cheaper and healthier than eating out all the time." 2. "Don't buy every little thing advertised on Instagram. It's okay to treat yourself sometimes, but seriously, only spend money on things that you actually need or really, really love. Many people are obviously living paycheck-to-paycheck for their basic needs, but I've noticed that many early twentysomethings who are new to having and spending money tend to spend it recklessly. Those impulse buys really add up. It's so important to start building good money habits now, including building credit." —eveagornall 3. "If you wouldn't ask for advice from someone, don't take criticism from them, either. Their opinion doesn't matter." —u/throwtheclownaway20 4. "Indulge in your hobbies — it's so fulfilling and gratifying. Oh, you like sketching, painting, crocheting, and pottery? DO IT. Hobbies nurture the soul and feed the spirit. It it makes you happy, keep at it. You don't need to make a career out of it or make a profit from it. If it makes you happy, then why stop?" —u/Gingerpsycho94 5. "If you're good at a sport, don't put it off. Pursue it while you're young, because almost all sports are a young person's game. Plus, if you want a college degree, being good at a sport will most likely help with expenses." 6. "If you feel like college isn't for you, or if you have no idea what you want to do, you can make a very respectable living and have far more job security if you learn a trade. The world will ALWAYS need electricians, carpenters, plumbers, etc. When I was growing up, college was pushed on us so hard that learning a trade was equivalent to being a failure. Buying into that mentality is something I will always regret." —u/OkaySureBye 7. "Don't keep toxic people in your life just because you have good memories with them. Friendship is a two-way street — it's a mutual giving. If this person tears you down, makes jokes at your expense, and doesn't contact you unless they want or need something, get rid of them. I had so many toxic friends in my early 20s that took me way too long to get rid of." —u/Gingerpsycho94 8. "Take care of your teeth. Go to your dentist appointments, floss, invest in a good toothbrush — you won't regret it when you're older." 9. "This applies for everyone, but for men, especially: Don't be afraid to seek help if you're struggling with your mental health. Male suicide rates remain shamefully high, and you don't deserve to be part of that statistic. Also, no matter how embarrassing you may find it, if you have medical concerns about your dick, balls, or prostate, then go see a doctor." —u/DavosLostFingers 10. "Don't try and be the person that everybody likes. Not everybody is going to like you, and that's just something you have to deal with. The faster you realize that some people are just assholes, the faster you realize that you shouldn't give a shit." —u/DippyCat149 11. "Take care of your body. You'll be shocked at how much your body starts falling apart the more you age — I know I was. So, exercise if you're able, and be mindful of the things you eat." 12. "Don't get married yet. In your early 20s, you have no idea who you actually are and what's really important to you. Give yourself some time to come into yourself." —u/12345_PIZZA 13. "Build your credit as soon as possible, and be responsible with it. Having bad credit will fuck you endlessly, and it's hard to get out of the 'bad credit pit.' Where you live, what you drive, what happens if you have an emergency — that will all be defined by your credit." —u/Historical-Age-3302 14. "The entire economy is set up to abuse you in every way that it can. Learn how to be financially literate and plan EARLY, OFTEN, and CONSISTENTLY." —u/ChangingHats 15. "Take every opportunity to spend time with your friends. All of my groomsmen and I have been buddies since high school or before, and nowadays, I only get to see them during holidays or if we randomly run into each other. We're all married, and some of us have kids. We still get to hop on a game with each other maybe one night a week, but that's a far cry from how close-knit we were before we hit our 30s. Transitioning from your 20s into your 30s is such a wild lifestyle change. Before, I was never required to be anywhere, go to events, or take on projects for the house. Don't get me wrong, I am loving this chapter of my life for different reasons, but I do miss the excess spontaneity and freedom of my 20s." 16. "If you work has a 401K, put in, at minimum, as much as they match (if they match). Even if they don't, open that personal Roth IRA and put in what you can. Even putting in $100 a year will add up dramatically — hell, even $50 a year will make a difference. Also, try really hard not to cash it out. Life happens, but if you can just leave it and let it sit, it will pay dividends later." —u/Bunnita 17. "Don't rush growing up. Enjoy the body that you're in, keep living with your parents if you're comfortable, and enjoy the experiences that come with just being young." —u/Rippling_Debt 18. "It's okay to keep things private and live offline. As you get older, you might regret how 'open' you were with the world." —u/randomgbeing222 19. "Get a good cast-iron pan and a set of stainless steel pots and pans. They can withstand heavy use, so you'll have them for a long time! Avoid anything advertised as non-stick, because once scratched, the coating is worthless." 20. "Don't just socialize with people in your age group. Obviously, don't be weird about it, but I think you can learn a lot by spending quality time with people who are significantly older than you. It's also nice to have genuine friendships with some younger people, too. You can learn from anyone, I think." —u/forsaken-bus-pass 21. "Regardless of your skin tone or skin type, wear sunscreen every day. And don't forget your neck!" —u/runnersblock 22. "Love people. Hold on to the people who matter to you, learn to forgive (with the caveat that you keep a soft eye out for manipulation), and accept that, although people are often imperfect, they're worth keeping around." —u/OverallAd9971 23. "Appreciate your body and whatever imperfections you think you have! It's way easier said than done, but try not to waste your 20s feeling insecure about things that you cannot, or are difficult to, change. You might look back one day and wish you had the body you have now, so enjoy it and wear what you want." 24. "Choose a life before it chooses you. That's the best advice I can offer. Whether you decide school isn't for you and just start working, you go to college, make a family, whatever — choose the life you want for yourself." —u/Jazzlike_Grab_7228 25. "If you're not using something, get rid of it. Don't hoard — sort out and organize your belongings as you go along, or else you'll have a very big job on your hands if or when you decide to move. Also, being clutter-free just puts your mind at ease." —u/reminisce2222 26. "Don't be afraid to apologize or admit that you're wrong. Also, please get those smear tests, prostate tests, mammograms, hearing tests, eye tests, and everything else in-between." —u/Which_Ad3038 27. "Every few years, take the time to literally sit down and plan where you want to be in five or ten years. Like, what do you want your relationships, your job, and your life to look like? Break it down and order it by the things you care the most about, and journal it. Give yourself a few action steps while you're at it. You can always adjust if you change your mind, but it's good to give yourself concrete goals." 28. Lastly: "DO NOT SETTLE! You are young. You may feel pressure from society, family, or your relationships to settle, but don't do it. You will regret it later on down the road. Enjoy life, be free, be your authentic self, and trust your gut. You are often deserving of more things than you think." —u/BigBearSD If you're an adult over 30, what's some life advice you'd like to share with people in their 20s and younger? Let us know in the comments, or you can anonymously submit your words of wisdom using the form below! Note: Some responses have been edited for length and/or clarity.
