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Query: Dear Mary Frances, I am in my late 60s and have been farming all my life on land that originally belonged to my parents. I married my wife in the early 1980s. Twelve years ago she moved out of the family home and has been living with a new partner since. We never divorced and haven’t had any formal legal separation. We just agreed she would leave and I would continue farming. Things were tense for a while, but we have reached a kind of unspoken peace and only deal with each other through the children if needed.
